It's the job of a stationary designer and consultant to help you reach a decision about your invitations, but it's not quite that simple. Because commission is part of how these experts get paid, it's part of their job to try and make your shopping experience unfold as fast as possible, which can make the design decision stressful. It's also likely that they will present their most expensive, high quality offerings, which might not be right for your budget.
Before you start shopping, think about the cues your invitation will give to your guests about the kind of party you are throwing. Form a picture in your imagination of how your event will feel, and what it will be like. Whether you choose a fancy catered gala or a relaxed friendly potluck is up to you, but no matter your choice, think about the right invitation to match that vibe.
Find photos online or in magazines that reflect the vibe you are trying to create at your party. Share these pictures with the salesperson, so he or she can suggest the right elements for your invitation. From paper stock to design details, leverage the designer's expertise by clearly communicating the feeling you are trying to achieve.
In addition to bringing photos from magazines or the internet, work with your spouse to come up with a short list of descriptive words. These should describe both the anniversary party, and the feeling of your ideal invitations. For example, do you want something warm and relaxed, or elaborate and fancy? Share a list of five to ten adjectives with the salesperson, to help them guide you.
You and your partner should agree about your budget before you set foot in a store. Have a conversation together about the specific maximum dollar amount you can spend per invitation. Having that clarity will let you work with the salesperson to reach your goals together, and will minimize confusion and frustration for all of you.
It's good to decide on an exit strategy with your spouse, in case things go sour. If the vendor isn't the right fit, or if you just need some private time to talk over options, be ready to leave the store discretely and quickly. A simple code like "Let's check the parking meter before it runs out" gives you an excuse to leave without making a scene. Not every negotiation needs to happen in front of a salesperson, so you might need a break or some one on one conversation.
Shopping together and designing your invitations can be a fun activity as a couple. It's a great part of an anniversary celebration to collaborate on your purchase, and create something you are proud of that reflects your unique bond. Have fun combining your tastes and personalities in your invitation, just like you do in your romantic partnership!
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