Are Hong Kong Girls Easy? Not really... In most cases you need to work twice harder than you were with a girlfriend from the West. Take a step back: Besides the fact that your Hong Kong Sweet heart is very beautiful and hot, she is from a total different county. The culture and the people in Hong Kong are also very different from the West. Hong Kong girls also have different expectation from a good relationship. But no need to be panic! Today we are going to share with you some key things that will make your intercultural relationship work in the long term!
Most of foreigners cannot speak any Chinese today. If you are one of those, you are likely to speak most of time in English with your HK girlfriend-Almost for sure; English is the second language for most of Hong Kong citizen. While your girl might be well educated and speak pretty good English, she might get lost in some native English expression. So you need to be patient and communicate more clearly with her.
Instead of always interrupting the conversation, listen carefully about what she says. It says Hong Kong girls are pretty independent-she may look soft outside but women in Hong Kong usually have very hard centers-You need to realize this fact as soon as possible. We are not talking about negative trait here. But still it's very important to keep in mind in the relationship.
Find out what she likes and what her goal is, Money? Family or Career? What matters to her in a long term relationship? What kind of things she expect from her future husband? I understand sometimes it's difficult to find out the exact answers from your woman, but if you can try you best to understand more about her, it's helpful for the relationship going forward.
Hong Kong girls like gentlemen. Always being polite to your girlfriend is the key. Also don't check up her every move and schedule. It shows you don't really trust her. For example, as part of Hong Kong culture, it's very common to hang out with colleagues after work without bringing the "loved one". You need to get used to culture like this gradually. Otherwise the relationship will become shorter than you expect!
Last but not least, never cheat on your Hong Kong girlfriend. If you do that, the consequences can be catastrophic. Also remember never flirt with her friends or colleagues in any situations. All of these will put your relationship in danger!
Although these are just common sense, you will soon find out just how many foreigners don't get it right and after he worked very hard to get the Hong Kong girl, he cannot make the relationship work in the long term. Don't let that happen to you, my friend!
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