End your search for your other half.
What?!
This is probably the complete opposite of what you have been taught throughout your entire life, but take a second to hear me out. When you are desperately searching for your other half, you are implying that you aren't a complete and whole person in the first place. If our true happiness lives in seeing our lives and dreams fulfilled, then why are we setting ourselves up for failure by suggesting that we are always going to be incomplete until someone else arrives into our life?
As an alternative, look for the person who will be your teammate.
Look for someone who can be your support system, who wants you to be better for yourself, who will improve upon themselves daily, who will be there for you when your life starts to get rocky and who will come to you for love and support. If you look for someone who will be your partner in crime, not your missing piece, you will develop a much stronger relationship.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
The one and only one guarantee about this life is that things are going to change. Even the best relationships in the world are going to end and you are going to have to go on living your life. You will have to rise up to the challenges that losing loved ones bring you and be ready to continue on your path even though you may be grieving. This is a reality of life and it will never change. When you are a whole person, you can feel and hurt deeply and continue being yourself.
You are not deficient in anything. You are not lacking what you need. Rather, if you see yourself as a complete person who has a lot to offer this world you will show up willing to present who you truly are to everyone around you. Naturally, you will attract the person into your life who is perfect for you.
So find the person who will be your teammate and who will love and support you no matter what.
What?!
This is probably the complete opposite of what you have been taught throughout your entire life, but take a second to hear me out. When you are desperately searching for your other half, you are implying that you aren't a complete and whole person in the first place. If our true happiness lives in seeing our lives and dreams fulfilled, then why are we setting ourselves up for failure by suggesting that we are always going to be incomplete until someone else arrives into our life?
As an alternative, look for the person who will be your teammate.
Look for someone who can be your support system, who wants you to be better for yourself, who will improve upon themselves daily, who will be there for you when your life starts to get rocky and who will come to you for love and support. If you look for someone who will be your partner in crime, not your missing piece, you will develop a much stronger relationship.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
The one and only one guarantee about this life is that things are going to change. Even the best relationships in the world are going to end and you are going to have to go on living your life. You will have to rise up to the challenges that losing loved ones bring you and be ready to continue on your path even though you may be grieving. This is a reality of life and it will never change. When you are a whole person, you can feel and hurt deeply and continue being yourself.
You are not deficient in anything. You are not lacking what you need. Rather, if you see yourself as a complete person who has a lot to offer this world you will show up willing to present who you truly are to everyone around you. Naturally, you will attract the person into your life who is perfect for you.
So find the person who will be your teammate and who will love and support you no matter what.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about this daily journey of life. Dive into these Life Changing Quotes to inspire you to live your best life. Also, if you have a chance, check out these Strong Women Quotes to find that perfect teammate.
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