"Don't be afraid to let go. Every new adventure begins with the ending of another." - The Better Man Project
Why are we so scared to let go?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We think that what we experienced in the past is the best possible thing that could have happened to us and that nothing else in the future will come along to replace it.
But the truth is, when you really look at it, every ending of a story is a bit chaotic but it always births something new. Out of every dark space we have to walk through we end up returning back into the light.
Maybe it was someone you had to walk away from. But you have to remember, that before that person there was another and most likely another before that.
Understand that someone new will come into your life and heal the wounds that you are carrying. They will soothe your soul in ways that the other person could not.
And if that relationship falls apart, it will happen again.
And again...
Eventually, someone will come into your life who refuses to let you go. They will want to be with you forever and will fight for you when you need to be fought for and support you when you need to be supported.
That will be an incredible day.
So until that day, you have to keep to your faith and understand that life is a grand series of challenges and victories for those who really decide to live.
Life gives you exactly what you need vs. what you want.
While these lessons and challenges can be incredibly difficult, they help you grow into a person who can take on life's greatest challenges one step at a time.
You will always learn and always grow if you stay open and willing to experience everything that life has to offer you.
That's a happy life. That's one of fulfillment.
Continue trusting your path.
Why are we so scared to let go?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We think that what we experienced in the past is the best possible thing that could have happened to us and that nothing else in the future will come along to replace it.
But the truth is, when you really look at it, every ending of a story is a bit chaotic but it always births something new. Out of every dark space we have to walk through we end up returning back into the light.
Maybe it was someone you had to walk away from. But you have to remember, that before that person there was another and most likely another before that.
Understand that someone new will come into your life and heal the wounds that you are carrying. They will soothe your soul in ways that the other person could not.
And if that relationship falls apart, it will happen again.
And again...
Eventually, someone will come into your life who refuses to let you go. They will want to be with you forever and will fight for you when you need to be fought for and support you when you need to be supported.
That will be an incredible day.
So until that day, you have to keep to your faith and understand that life is a grand series of challenges and victories for those who really decide to live.
Life gives you exactly what you need vs. what you want.
While these lessons and challenges can be incredibly difficult, they help you grow into a person who can take on life's greatest challenges one step at a time.
You will always learn and always grow if you stay open and willing to experience everything that life has to offer you.
That's a happy life. That's one of fulfillment.
Continue trusting your path.
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Need help staying motivated and inspired? Visit Evan Sanders' website called The Better Man Project and dive into these inspirational 24 Undeniably Spot On Tired Quotes and these 43 Perfect Letting Go Quotes For Moving On to start living a better life.
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