Consulting with the experts is a must and talking to friends who have already been down this road is priceless. If one is at a loss as to where to begin it is best to do some research online or to go and see an interfaith rabbi in person. There is much to know and a lot to be decided upon when organizing a function of this kind.
It is not that complicated if one sticks to certain guidelines. If meat will be served then one will have to leave out milk products as these two items may not be served at the same time. Usually, it is custom and law among observant Jews to wait six hours after consuming meat products before partaking of anything milky.
Furthermore if the male in the couple is a Jew, he will be required to stamp on a glass at the culmination of the event. This symbolizes and reminds Jews of the destruction of both temples. As to why this is done, it is to remind the couple that a relationship takes work in making it work and to remind them what will be should they neglect each other during the course of their lives together.
So if it is meat that will be served remember not to serve it with any milk products as customarily one has to wait six hours after eating meat before milk can be consumed. Jews know this by heart so will be deeply disappointment if this be done. Milk can be eaten with fish so this is an option to explore especially if one does not eat meat but will prefer fish.
It is permissible however to serve fish with meat as long as the fish fulfills kosher requirements. They have to have fins and have scales in order for them to be consumed. Commonly though, fish is usually served with milk dishes such as lasagne and other milky treats.
With the correct guidance it is an occasion that is not too tricky to organise and one should leave enough time prior to the date to do so. Consulting with a Rabbi that will officiate a ceremony such as this is vital in order to get an idea of how these functions are celebrated. When in doubt, shop around for caterers on the internet and go and speak to them personally in order to find out firstly if they are accepted as an accepted kosher caterer.
It is best to consult with the experts and find someone who knows a bit about this subject. This can be found in a Rabbi who officiates occasions such as this. It is a time to be enjoyed so with the right preparation, all will succeed.
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