Educational background should be checked. For me, being with someone who had reached something in life is really important. Through this you would know if he was industrious when he was still studying, and a person who has not reached college has likely the most percentage of not getting hired. So there is no way for him to find a stable job if he did not have educational background.
Investigate on his family background. It is not all about checking if they have criminal background, of course you want to have an idea if what he was as a child, and how did he treat his parents. Because of what he acts to his family reflects on the way he will be acting with you once you build your own family.
We all have a dream guy. Think of when you were a kid and you start dreaming about the ideal partner that you have. Each of us has a different preference, think of what you are looking for a partner that you wished to be with. And check of the match they have given you matches with what you were thinking about.
Always put in mind the things that he would always want to do, like his interests and his hobbies. This serves as something that could be your basis on the thing which you will be giving to him. Because there has been partners who would have a hard time on getting presents because they do not have the idea of what their partners love and would like to receive, so it is better to keep this in mind also.
Know the values which he had grown up with. This way you would know the characteristic that is building on him. The values which will reflect on the kind of person which he had been and he will be. This would serve as a guide for you to have knowledge if the attitude he has fits on what you are. This would always reflect everything about him.
Knowing the ways which he handles different kinds of relationship is also an important thing to remember. He could build up these relationships through the people he deals with everyday, to his family, acquaintances, coworker and boss. See how he has been handling them because it will also somehow reflect on how he would be handling your relationship with him.
I always would check on the past relationships. It is not like unfolding the past, but a way for me to have a hint on what was through with that different gal. I would always ask some questions on the reason why they broke up, or how did they treated each other. So that I could probably adjust and to know him more through his past love.
With all the checking you have done, you will now have all the things you need to know about the match they have given you. For me, getting to know more about a person is so important. Because you can never be with a person who is stranger to you, especially when you met him through matchmaking apps.
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