It is never a pleasant situation finding oneself in when someone close passes away. A Rabbi funeral will be needed if the person was Jewish and this involves a wide range of to dos in order to get it done the proper way. There is a lot that must be abided by and a step by step process that needs doing to ensure that it goes off without a hitch.
Much is needed to organize in an event such as this. The body is washed by designated people in the community and this is considered to be a duty that is highly regarded. The body is watched from time of arrival at the cemetery so that the soul can be rest assured that the body is being cared for.
The watchman who sits with the body can be a family member or close friend and it is customary to recite verses from the Book of Psalms which were written by King David millennia ago. The body is prepared and is placed in a modest pine coffin in readiness for burial. As guests arrive the family is kept separate and is allowed a little time to reflect. The coffin is put on a plinth ready to be escorted to the gravesite.
A eulogy is customary in some communities and if not, and something one wants to do, the Rabbi can be asked for permission to do so. It is also customary to tear the clothing of the mourners as a sign that they are in mourning so it is a good idea to wear something old. This has been done for centuries and something that has been handed down through the ages.
As a family member it is best to wear an old shirt or scarf as the custom of Kriah is carried out where part of the clothing is torn to show the sign of mourning. This practice has been handed down too since the first burial was carried out in history. Pallbearers are called upon to escort the deceased to the gravesite and this is considered a big honor.
Once there prayers are said by the Rabbi and a eulogy is said. There are very definitive specifications of the grave itself as to how deep it must be and how wide. The coffin is finally lowered into the grave and more prayers are recited until finally a prayer called Kaddish is said by sons or fathers if the case may be that a child died.
Sons or Fathers are called upon to say a prayer called Kaddish in remembrance of the departed. The process of the whole ceremony can be discussed with a Rabbi who is well versed in ceremonies such as this. One should consult with the community as to who to get in contact with when this sort of need arises.
Consulting with the right people is a must. If there is not a Jewish cemetery in the area then one must consult with the community. A way forward is always found.
Much is needed to organize in an event such as this. The body is washed by designated people in the community and this is considered to be a duty that is highly regarded. The body is watched from time of arrival at the cemetery so that the soul can be rest assured that the body is being cared for.
The watchman who sits with the body can be a family member or close friend and it is customary to recite verses from the Book of Psalms which were written by King David millennia ago. The body is prepared and is placed in a modest pine coffin in readiness for burial. As guests arrive the family is kept separate and is allowed a little time to reflect. The coffin is put on a plinth ready to be escorted to the gravesite.
A eulogy is customary in some communities and if not, and something one wants to do, the Rabbi can be asked for permission to do so. It is also customary to tear the clothing of the mourners as a sign that they are in mourning so it is a good idea to wear something old. This has been done for centuries and something that has been handed down through the ages.
As a family member it is best to wear an old shirt or scarf as the custom of Kriah is carried out where part of the clothing is torn to show the sign of mourning. This practice has been handed down too since the first burial was carried out in history. Pallbearers are called upon to escort the deceased to the gravesite and this is considered a big honor.
Once there prayers are said by the Rabbi and a eulogy is said. There are very definitive specifications of the grave itself as to how deep it must be and how wide. The coffin is finally lowered into the grave and more prayers are recited until finally a prayer called Kaddish is said by sons or fathers if the case may be that a child died.
Sons or Fathers are called upon to say a prayer called Kaddish in remembrance of the departed. The process of the whole ceremony can be discussed with a Rabbi who is well versed in ceremonies such as this. One should consult with the community as to who to get in contact with when this sort of need arises.
Consulting with the right people is a must. If there is not a Jewish cemetery in the area then one must consult with the community. A way forward is always found.
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