The idea of celebrating a wedding anniversary comes a long way. It dates back to the days of the Holy Roman Empire, when husbands demonstrated their appreciation and love for their wives by crowning them with a silver wreath on their 25 wedding anniversary and a gold one on their 50th. Like with everything, this noble tradition soon became commercialized and today there is a specific symbol or gift for each year of marriage.
Romantic couples can expect gifts symbolizing the number of years they have been married on their anniversary parties. The most common internationally accepted symbols for modern day wedding anniversaries are wood, tin, crystal, china, silver, pearl, ruby, gold and diamond.
Deciding how to celebrate one's 25th year of matrimony can already be daunting. One must decide how many people and specifically who to invite without offending some friends or family members. The location and nature of the event can be equally difficult. Outdoor events are mostly weather permitting and indoor events require a venue with the right ambiance and size to accommodate all guests. Should it be formal or informal?
With so much to plan and organize, the last thing a couple wants to worry about is invitation cards. Some arty people can design and make their own personalized invitations, but most people need some help. It is no use planning a glittery gala-event if the invitations look as though a kid made them and/or do not contain all the required information.
An anniversary invitation should not only be stylish and professional, it should also reflect the nature of the event and the personalities of the couple. It can be formal, informal and even have a touch of humor, but it must still be professional and stylish to show respect. Even if you plan an outdoor, informal barbeque, the invitations need not look tatty and unprofessional.
There are zillions of mass-produced cards of all kinds in shops and on the internet. Some of them may be perfect for a small, first or second wedding celebration, but a 25th wedding anniversary require something as special as the occasion itself. The best option is to get general ideas for a design, theme and wording from the mass-produced cards and then seek the help of a professional person to design your own, unique personalized invitations.
The traditional appreciation for a long, happy marriage is still apparent today in the practices of some commonwealth countries. Couples who manage to stay alive and married for 50 years and longer, can arrange to receive a personal blessing from the monarch or other state dignitaries on their 60th, 65th, 70th and subsequent wedding anniversaries. They simply have to apply to Buckingham Palace in the UK, or to the Governor-General's office in the Commonwealth country where they live.
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