This also goes for the opposite, where a Christian partner would prefer to have their wedding in a Church. It can be a confusing time as to what exactly is best as these two religions, though very different, both have similar values. Some choose to do both, having two ceremonies, one in a Church and one in a synagogue.
Some will even go the extra mile of converting to Judaism. This is a difficult process and one that is not easily achieved but is a route worth considering especially should the couple be thinking about bringing children into this world. Judaism does not look for converts and it is with this in mind that it must be something, a yearning that someone has to do.
But if a couple just wants to have a Jewish feel to the wedding then this is easily accomplished today by consulting with an interfaith Rabbi. There is much to celebrate and a few of the customs of a wedding can be done such as breaking of the glass after vows have been taken. The breaking of a glass is done by the groom and this commemorates the destruction of both temples a long time ago.
It all depends to what degree of kashrut the couple would like to have. Kashrut is the term used for those laws that govern dietary laws and this can also be discussed with the Rabbi. This is just one area that must be adhered to in order to become a Jew. Dietary laws are strict, from slaughtering an animal to its consumption.
Others such as shark for instance are not kosher and may not be eaten. Also seafoods such as crabs, lobster and prawns are also a no no and should not be served at all. Some guests may be offended if these are served so it is best to cater for all. It is an aveirah to eat something that is not allowed.
Basically the word aveirah is used throughout the Hebrew language and means a sin. Apart from this there are many other customs and festivals that are celebrated in the year of a Jew and all of these have practices with strict rules as how to perform them. Another celebration is the day of Yom Kippur where one fasts for a full twenty five to twenty six hours.
These are just a few of the practices that one should consider when wanting to convert should this be a choice. Judaism is a beautiful religion. It teaches love, compassion and through its practices, to come ultimately closer to the Creator.
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