Unity candles are popular at Christian weddings. In this tradition the mothers of the couple light two candles. Later in the ceremony the couple takes one candle each and uses them to light the third. The tradition can be adjusted in the event the mothers are not able to participate. This is not a tradition that will be familiar to the Jews in attendance, but they will get the significance since candles play a part in the religious ceremonies they observe.
Spoken vows aren't part of Hebrew ceremonies because they are included in the ketubah. Christians, on the other hand, would probably feel confused by the lack of vows. Many couples of mixed faiths decide to include them, and Jews are normally fine with the inclusion of vows because they are so used to attending weddings in which vows are an integral part.
Breaking the glass is a Jewish wedding tradition not all Christians are familiar with. Many couples like the idea of adding it to their ceremonies because of what it represents. In one respect the tradition symbolizes the Jerusalem temple destruction. It also represents the sanctity and sacredness of their marriage covenant.
Adding the ketubah to a mixed faith ceremony will be special to the Jews in attendance, but may be strange for the Christians. The ketubah is the marriage document outlining the groom's responsibilities and rights with regard to his bride. It is considered symbolic today and is not enforceable law, unless you are a couple living in Israel.
The chuppah will look familiar to the Christians because a form of this bridal canopy has become so popular with couples of all faiths. Not all Christians will recognize that it has its origins in Jewish culture though. The chuppah is a symbol of the home this couple will build and share together. It is a nod to the tent belonging to Abraham. This tent was open on all sides as a welcoming gesture to strangers.
Circling is a tradition for Jews that will be curious, but charming, for the Christians in attendance. The bride circles the groom seven times. This symbolizes the seven days of creation, the seven wedding blessings, and that the groom is now the center of his bride's world.
For some circling represents a wall. This wall is protection for the couple against evil spirits. Pronouncing the bride and groom married and introducing them to the guests is a Christian tradition Jews embrace.
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