Attracting the man of your dreams or any man, for that matter, probably isn't as difficult as you are making it out to be. Once you know a few secrets about what men find attractive and how men think, you can leverage this covert intelligence to attract and connect with any man. No matter what you look like, how much you believe that he's out of your league or even if he already has a girlfriend, you can attract and connect with any many you choose once you understand how men think and process attraction.
You probably have already figured out that men feel things just a little bit differently than women. Attempting to get a guy's attention in the same way that you would like a man to approach you simply will not work. You can try being nice to him and engaging him in stimulating conversation but what is your goal? You aren't looking for another friend. You're hoping that he'll ask you out. You're not interested in being one of his many girlfriends. You want him to forget about every other woman in the room. You want him to pay attention to you and you alone. That is what we're talking about when we say that we're going to attract a man.
First, men are visual creatures. They are attracted to things visually at first. It doesn't matter if it's a car, a woman or a coffee maker. If it turns him on visually at first then you have his attention. If you are nervous because you feel that you're not the prettiest or thinnest or most attractive woman in the room, don't worry. All it takes is one thing for him to find you attractive. One physical feature is all that is necessary to get his attention and lead him to you. You don't have to be perfect. For every man that has ever approached a woman at a bar and asked for her number, all it took was one feature to initiate that attraction.
It could be that you have nice hair or beautiful eyes or a pleasant shape that is appealing to a man's eyes. To improve your odds of winning, you can accentuate your best features and not worry about the features that might not be so attractive. We all have things that we like about ourselves as well as thing that we would rather hide, if possible. By accentuating just a few of your positive features you may hit a nerve that will allow him to see only that one feature and that is your foot in the door.
Flirting is huge with men. They don't know it but they are attracted to women that flirt with them. Coming right out and telling a guy that you're interested in him will make him run for the nearest fire exit yet flirting with him will make him want to get to know you better. You might say that no self respecting woman flirts with guys these days. You might feel awkward or ridiculous flirting with a man like a high school cheerleader but it works. While every other girl in the room is too embarrassed to flirt with that guy, your feminine charm will outshine those wall flowers.
Have fun and be as flirty as you can possibly be. Try giggling and being coy to start and hit him with the heavy stuff as things progress. If he smiles then you're doing it right. Toss your hair or chew on a straw and make eye contact with him. If he appears to become embarrassed then you can resort to some of the more subtle types of flirting such as letting him catch you looking his way or a shy glance from out of the corner of your eye. If he smiles or appears interested then pour it on and have fun. Touching him when you're talking is great way to flirt. Touching is one of the most overlooked aspects of flirting yet it is very powerful.
Last but not least, asking deep questions and showing that you have a sincere interest in him is the pathway to his heart. While he might know a lot of people and have many friends, few of them probably really know him. Very few people in his life probably care enough about him to ask about his dreams and goals in life. Probing questions that build off of his answers can lead him to feel a deep connection with you. Answers to questions that most people wouldn't dare to ask will make him feel as if he has known you for a long time.
Most people ask the same boring questions when they meet someone new. They ask what you do for a living, whether or not you like your job and where you're from. The deepest most people probe when they're talking to someone they're interested in is to ask how they became interested in their current career. Asking questions that build off of the answers that he gives you will allow you to dig down into his life and his feelings. Don't be shy. Ask him if he ever thought that he would be where he is now when he was ten or twelve. This is a way of indirectly asking him what his childhood dream was. Before you know it he is sharing his innermost secrets from his life with you. You will begin to understand who he is as a person. As he shares these secrets he will automatically become connected to you on a very deep level.
You see, attracting the man of your dreams doesn't have to be complicated or full of tricks and schemes. You can attract a guy using his instinctual attraction to things that he sees and then draw him closer using these bonding techniques. Once a man feels that kind of connection, it doesn't matter what you look like, how much money you make or even what skeletons you have hiding in your closet. He will feel drawn to you and want to spend more time with you because you make him feel important and he is attracted to you. This is basic male psychology and how you can use attraction to get any man to pay attention to you.
You probably have already figured out that men feel things just a little bit differently than women. Attempting to get a guy's attention in the same way that you would like a man to approach you simply will not work. You can try being nice to him and engaging him in stimulating conversation but what is your goal? You aren't looking for another friend. You're hoping that he'll ask you out. You're not interested in being one of his many girlfriends. You want him to forget about every other woman in the room. You want him to pay attention to you and you alone. That is what we're talking about when we say that we're going to attract a man.
First, men are visual creatures. They are attracted to things visually at first. It doesn't matter if it's a car, a woman or a coffee maker. If it turns him on visually at first then you have his attention. If you are nervous because you feel that you're not the prettiest or thinnest or most attractive woman in the room, don't worry. All it takes is one thing for him to find you attractive. One physical feature is all that is necessary to get his attention and lead him to you. You don't have to be perfect. For every man that has ever approached a woman at a bar and asked for her number, all it took was one feature to initiate that attraction.
It could be that you have nice hair or beautiful eyes or a pleasant shape that is appealing to a man's eyes. To improve your odds of winning, you can accentuate your best features and not worry about the features that might not be so attractive. We all have things that we like about ourselves as well as thing that we would rather hide, if possible. By accentuating just a few of your positive features you may hit a nerve that will allow him to see only that one feature and that is your foot in the door.
Flirting is huge with men. They don't know it but they are attracted to women that flirt with them. Coming right out and telling a guy that you're interested in him will make him run for the nearest fire exit yet flirting with him will make him want to get to know you better. You might say that no self respecting woman flirts with guys these days. You might feel awkward or ridiculous flirting with a man like a high school cheerleader but it works. While every other girl in the room is too embarrassed to flirt with that guy, your feminine charm will outshine those wall flowers.
Have fun and be as flirty as you can possibly be. Try giggling and being coy to start and hit him with the heavy stuff as things progress. If he smiles then you're doing it right. Toss your hair or chew on a straw and make eye contact with him. If he appears to become embarrassed then you can resort to some of the more subtle types of flirting such as letting him catch you looking his way or a shy glance from out of the corner of your eye. If he smiles or appears interested then pour it on and have fun. Touching him when you're talking is great way to flirt. Touching is one of the most overlooked aspects of flirting yet it is very powerful.
Last but not least, asking deep questions and showing that you have a sincere interest in him is the pathway to his heart. While he might know a lot of people and have many friends, few of them probably really know him. Very few people in his life probably care enough about him to ask about his dreams and goals in life. Probing questions that build off of his answers can lead him to feel a deep connection with you. Answers to questions that most people wouldn't dare to ask will make him feel as if he has known you for a long time.
Most people ask the same boring questions when they meet someone new. They ask what you do for a living, whether or not you like your job and where you're from. The deepest most people probe when they're talking to someone they're interested in is to ask how they became interested in their current career. Asking questions that build off of the answers that he gives you will allow you to dig down into his life and his feelings. Don't be shy. Ask him if he ever thought that he would be where he is now when he was ten or twelve. This is a way of indirectly asking him what his childhood dream was. Before you know it he is sharing his innermost secrets from his life with you. You will begin to understand who he is as a person. As he shares these secrets he will automatically become connected to you on a very deep level.
You see, attracting the man of your dreams doesn't have to be complicated or full of tricks and schemes. You can attract a guy using his instinctual attraction to things that he sees and then draw him closer using these bonding techniques. Once a man feels that kind of connection, it doesn't matter what you look like, how much money you make or even what skeletons you have hiding in your closet. He will feel drawn to you and want to spend more time with you because you make him feel important and he is attracted to you. This is basic male psychology and how you can use attraction to get any man to pay attention to you.
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