You are sure that you are still in love with your ex boyfriend. You want him back in your life every day. You want to talk to him when good things happen in your life and when bad things happen but do you truly love him?
First, forget what your ex girlfriend says. This means, forget about anything that she has said about what she wants in a man and also forget about anything that she has said during or after your breakup. Even if she has told you that she just doesn't love you anymore, that's not really the truth. A woman's moods and feelings are subject to change at a moment's notice. You might think that she's crazy but your ex girlfriend's opinion of you can change very quickly from having her hate you or look at you as a friend to being madly and most passionately in love with you.
Women base all of their decisions upon emotions. Their intuition or emotional feeling about something is what drives the decision making process. Men tend to be more analytical and they are ruled predominately by their mind. Women are ruled by their heart or feelings. For a woman to say that she's in love, she needs to feel certain emotions. A woman craves these romantic feelings and this is why so many women like to read romance novels or watch romantic movies.
Right now, your ex girlfriend is probably feeling a lack of those romantic feelings from you. She simply isn't feeling those warm, fuzzy feelings that are necessary for her to say that she loves you. All of this is probably due to the fact that she views you as a weak man or as a little bit creepy. When things started going downhill in your relationship, you probably tried harder to get her to love you. You tried not to make any mistakes or you wanted to talk about your relationship or your feelings. The harder you tried, the less love she felt for you.
In order for you to win her back and make her feel those loving feelings again, you need to erase the past and trigger those emotions that equal love in her mind and her heart. In order for her to forget about your moments of weakness, you should spend a little time apart from her and stop chasing her. A real man doesn't chase a woman. He allows the woman to show interest in him first and then he sweeps her off her feet. She doesn't want to hear words. She wants to see action in your life. You need to be strong and decisive in everything that you do. Forget about those weak, needy ways and start making things happen in your life.
Once she begins to show interest and she becomes curious about what is going on in your life, remind her of the most romantic moments in your relationship. Be prepared with a few stories about when you were in love and remind her of those times. She will begin to think of those times when you remind her and she will focus on those feelings instead of the memories of you begging her for a second chance. If you can fill her mind with memories of when you were happy together she will instinctively want to experience more of those times and romantic moments with you. Be sure that you have your life together and you are prepared emotionally to deliver those feelings into her life again. Be strong and don't hesitate. Make her fall in love with you again and everything will fall into place.
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