I promise to never know you.
Make a great promise to never know the individual you love. What does that really mean? I mean, each and every day commit to studying about them continually as if they were somebody new. Date them. Court them. Be pumped up about them. The very worst thing you can do in a functioning relationship is fall into complacency and allow for things to get dull. No, you must definitely fall head over heels in love again with the individual you like. That keeps the fire going.
I promise to never need you.
Promise to never need them to be anything but what they are. In fact , true love is loving someone for exactly who they are in reality and exactly who they aren't. When we start looking at the soul across from us and demanding that they change elemental things about themselves, you know that you two are headed for trouble when anyone starts trying to manipulate who you are way down on the inside. So don't even be that person. As an alternative celebrate your likenesses and celebrate your differences. That's how you know that you have something truly special on your hands.
I promise to rock your socks off every day
Sounds a tiny bit mad, and it truly is, but love is lots of fun. Love is flowery combat. Love is exuberant and kind. If you aim to really bring something new and fun to the table every time you see somebody, you can keep the levels of attraction very high and always be having an excellent time. Sure, there'll be times where you get mixed up in fights, but keep the perspective of wanting to rock someones socks off every single day and you will be always growing with someone in a functional relationship.
So make these 3 commitments to someone incredibly special.
Who knows? Lightning could strike.
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