Someone once expounded it...something like...if your value is decided by others compliments, then you also will be demolished by their deep criticisms.
I didn't truly understand this quote right until recently. But now, I really get it.
I assume this is the 1st time in a while that I've heard about somebody saying bad things about me behind my back. For a second, it rocked me. For the minutes to hours after, it fueled me. I put those comments in a special place within me that I can go to each and every day when I need them. The truth is, inspiration is many things for many different types of people. Ideally you would wish to set an exceedingly positive goal for yourself and work towards achieving that goal. Nevertheless the fuel we must use might actually not always be clean.
Sometimes, it's going to burn black.
I mostly talk of the balance of life...light and dark...especially deep within the soul, and I believe that we can find things within ourselves that will fuel our actions even though the fuel itself isn't pure. I'm talking about the times somebody recounted something hurtful, terrible, rude or merely hurtful in all. For some, those things can positively ruin their ambitions. To be truthful, that happened many times with me. I did not have the belief in myself yet to "do it" regardless of what anybody said.
These things that other people say, at the end, are not even really about you. I know cause I have been on the other side. I remember a point when I couldn't say good things because I loathed myself. I hated that they were doing it and I couldn't. I abhorred everything about that person because they could make the sacrifices...they had the willpower...they were actually...doing what I had always dreamed about.
You can spend your life blaming people and attempting to bring others down because you have got a useless life or you can focus upon loving yourself and others, something you do really need in order to be a positive individual and motivate other people and their dreams. At the end, spewing hate only tears you apart. Karma returns around in one way or another and takes care of business. Been there also.
You are either for others or against them.
Be for others. Be for their dreams...that makes you a warm person inside. Be for relationships. That cold heart you are harboring is only going to freeze harder and eventually divide into hundreds of pieces. Hate, hurt, and envy will cut you in half and you will spend many years fighting between the loving side and the terrible side. Once more I have been there. No matter what you do, people are going to not like you for some reason. They are going to be rubbed the wrong way, they won't like your hair, your eyes, your nose, your smell, your image...they will find a way. Don't sweat it. You're on the right track. Because no one has ever talked trash about someone that actually did not mean something to them in one way or another.
Remember that. Not everybody is going to love peaches.
So you must truly really matter to them. So much, they are taking time out of their day to speak about you. What a distinction.
So cheers...haters...I tip my cap to you. I must be headed in the right direction.
I didn't truly understand this quote right until recently. But now, I really get it.
I assume this is the 1st time in a while that I've heard about somebody saying bad things about me behind my back. For a second, it rocked me. For the minutes to hours after, it fueled me. I put those comments in a special place within me that I can go to each and every day when I need them. The truth is, inspiration is many things for many different types of people. Ideally you would wish to set an exceedingly positive goal for yourself and work towards achieving that goal. Nevertheless the fuel we must use might actually not always be clean.
Sometimes, it's going to burn black.
I mostly talk of the balance of life...light and dark...especially deep within the soul, and I believe that we can find things within ourselves that will fuel our actions even though the fuel itself isn't pure. I'm talking about the times somebody recounted something hurtful, terrible, rude or merely hurtful in all. For some, those things can positively ruin their ambitions. To be truthful, that happened many times with me. I did not have the belief in myself yet to "do it" regardless of what anybody said.
These things that other people say, at the end, are not even really about you. I know cause I have been on the other side. I remember a point when I couldn't say good things because I loathed myself. I hated that they were doing it and I couldn't. I abhorred everything about that person because they could make the sacrifices...they had the willpower...they were actually...doing what I had always dreamed about.
You can spend your life blaming people and attempting to bring others down because you have got a useless life or you can focus upon loving yourself and others, something you do really need in order to be a positive individual and motivate other people and their dreams. At the end, spewing hate only tears you apart. Karma returns around in one way or another and takes care of business. Been there also.
You are either for others or against them.
Be for others. Be for their dreams...that makes you a warm person inside. Be for relationships. That cold heart you are harboring is only going to freeze harder and eventually divide into hundreds of pieces. Hate, hurt, and envy will cut you in half and you will spend many years fighting between the loving side and the terrible side. Once more I have been there. No matter what you do, people are going to not like you for some reason. They are going to be rubbed the wrong way, they won't like your hair, your eyes, your nose, your smell, your image...they will find a way. Don't sweat it. You're on the right track. Because no one has ever talked trash about someone that actually did not mean something to them in one way or another.
Remember that. Not everybody is going to love peaches.
So you must truly really matter to them. So much, they are taking time out of their day to speak about you. What a distinction.
So cheers...haters...I tip my cap to you. I must be headed in the right direction.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Need to move on? A lover talking behind your back? Try out these ex boyfriend quotes.
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