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How To Seduce Your Neighbor

Have you always had a thing for the girl that lives next door? Are you unsure of how to approach her? Are you afraid that your advances will not work? Then you have absolutely come to the right place. One of the most common people to fall for is the girl next door, so if you have fallen for her, you are certainly not alone! Because you see each other every day, and live within a certain proximity of each other, neighbors can become very attractive. One of the draw backs to dating or getting with the girl next door is that many men think that they won't be able to seduce her, therefore making the relationship between them awkward. The truth is however that seducing the girl next door can be extremely easy if you know the tricks of the trade. If you use these tips the right way, you will have a lover who lives conveniently right next door, ready for you whenever you want.

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Be Careful When Dating Chinese Women

By Peter Chambers


Have you 'dated' Chinese girls before? You might have taken them out on a 'date' or perhaps several 'dates' and then be spurned in your advances. You probably paid for several nice meals and spent considerable time with them, thinking that things were going really well. Obviously she must like you a lot if she went out with you so frequently! So then you try to kiss her and get hit with bitter rejection. That's because your 'date' was more like an appointment.

The term date in Chinese literally means a meeting. It often has no romantic connotation whatsoever. From MDBG.net (fantastic Chinese dictionary site), the word ??yue?hu means "appointment / engagement / date ... / to set up to meet." It simply means an arrangement to meet. The same word you use to ask a woman out is how she asks her dentist to meet her for a cleaning!

Don't be amazed if she conveniently twists the context of this word to her advantage. The word itself serves to secure Chinese girls' interests. If you take them on a few dates and she decides there is no sexual/romantic connection there then she simply says she never imagined there was any romantic implication! This might cause you to ask, "Well how come she seeing me if she didn't have any interest?"

This is where "face" comes into the discussion.

If you know much about Chinese culture, you have certainly have heard of face before. Chinese girls think that by merely being with you they are offering you face. By merely being out in public with her she is doing you a service. This has a deep reference to a prior article I wrote about Chinese girls having a sense of entitlement. Only a Chinese girl can give you face, not the opposite way round.

The main reason this leads to this type of problem is because Chinese girls maintain this mentality when they arrive to the USA. It may take them over 1 year before they fully grasp the concept of "dating" in English. Obviously in the event you ask a woman on a date in English there is a romantic implication there, but it will take a Chinese girl some time to realize this. The way to combat this issue is to just be honest with her and after a couple "dates" remind her that you've got romantic feelings and avoid getting the run around.

It is essential to realize that this isn't an isolated phenomenon. Translation can result in issues and you must be careful of the language you choose so as to make your speech concise and clear. You have to be conscious of simple things like calling a gal funny suggests that she is humorous in English, but in Chinese means weird or irregular. It is difficult to identify these complaints without a little bit of research so go out there and learn some Chinese for yourself!




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