It is a fact that thousands of men around the world are married to Filipinas, however it is also true that there are still many men out there who are looking for their one true love. Many of them become members of Filipina dating sites and date different women for some time then be left alone again. If you're one of these men who is still in the searching stage, you might want to analyze how you're communicating with these women.
In this article, we will tell you about the three ways you should communicate with women from the Philippines so that they stay with you and not leave you out in the cold.
1. Don't be "mahangin"
Mahangin is a Filipino words to describe a man who is a braggart. It's also used to describe someone who is cocky. There's certainly no place for mahangin men in the hearts of Filipino women. But we think this also applies to all women regardless of where they're from. Women who want to get married want a man who has a good head on his shoulders and does not excessively invite attention to himself.
Really, on any given day, a Filipino woman will prefer a man who is down-to-earth and doesn't brag about who he is and what he's achieved in life.
2. Poverty should never be in your vocabulary
There are many foreign men out there who start their online date with a Filipina with something along this line: "I have money and I will get you out of poverty." But this really does nothing but show that the man has more money than commonsense. The Philippines may be a poor country but it doesn't mean that all the people living in it are dirt poor. Majority actually earn enough money to live a comfortable life although it may not a luxurious one.
3. Honesty is not always the best policy
If you're used to speaking your mind, you should be a little more careful. Filipinos are not used to feedback and will take it personally if you have a not so favorable opinion about the Philippines and Filipinos in general. There are other ways that you might be too honest, like telling a woman that she's not the only one you're dating online.
Although they know that foreign men don't date just one woman from the Philippines, Filipino women are, really, the jealous type and will be mad at you if you keep on talking about any other woman you're dating online. Although they're not the confrontational type, Filipinas will express their angry in another way - they might just stop communicating with you altogether.
In conclusion, if you haven't had luck finding a decent Filipina who could possibly become your wife, maybe it's time to examine how you're communicating with the Filipino women you meet online. Really, although they're very friendly to foreigners, they're still women from a different culture. You will want to be more careful in how you communicate.
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