In this article, we will tell you the five things you can do right now to check if the lady you're dating online is a real one.
1. Talk on the phone while chatting
When you're chatting, ask for her cell phone number and then call that number right away. If she doesn't give you her number, that should ring some alarm bells - she might not be a real woman at all. But if she does give you her number, talk in a gentle voice - Filipinas are big on "feeling" someone's voice.
2. Write to her home address
There are two reasons why you need to write to her home address and start corresponding: One, you can use the address to get more information about her and two, you can use your letters later to prove to the government that you have a real relationship that's been going for some time. While you can save your chat logs and print them as proof when applying for US fiance or spousal visa, what the government wants to see is snail mail correspondence because you can't fake postmarked letters, unlike emails and chat logs.
3. Get her family's home address
Most Filipinas actually don't move out of their homes until they're married. Outside of marriage, the only time Filipina women live away from their parents is when they work away from home. So, if she lives far away, ask for her parents' address. Like her home address, you can use her parents' address to get more information about her and her family.
4. Hire a private investigator and do the "my friend interview"
Thanks to Filipina dating sites, private investigators (PI) are also thriving in the Philippines too. If you're serious about your Filipina date but want to make sure she's real and is of good character, hire a PI. Although it costs money, you get a lot more in terms of information. Give your PI the address or addresses she gave you.
5. Check if she's on Facebook
If you want to know what kind of woman she is without hiring a PI, check her Facebook account. No, don't ask for her Facebook account directly or add her as a friend from your own FB account. Use another account and then check her profile. The good thing about many Filipino women is that they are open books on Facebook and post just about anything that happens to piss them off or make them happy, like selfies.
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